Shawnda Josefina Pallares, who now goes by the name Shawnda Basaca, is from Oak Harbor, Washington, and comes from a military family. Shawnda Pallares and Frankii Cruz met in December 2005, and throughout the entirety of their relationship, Frankii Cruz misled Shawnda Pallares into believing that he really was trying to divorce his second wife but that it was his second wife who was not cooperating with the divorce process.
When it was revealed to Shawnda Pallares that Frankii Cruz was misleading her, Shawnda Pallares chose to believe Frankii Cruz and asked, "Why won't Frankii's second wife just grant Frankii a divorce? Why is she still hanging on? Just move on and be happy and let him move on with me because we're happy."
Based on Shawnda Pallares' question it seems obvious the types of stories Frankii Cruz was telling. Shawnda Pallares was then informed that JCS was in fact determined to move on but Frankii Cruz was refusing to divorce her. Because Frankii Cruz was actively deployed in the military at that time he legally didn't have to respond to any divorce paperwork that was sent to him, which is what he chose to do. Frankii Cruz was determined to remain a married man throughout his engagement to Shawnda Pallares.
It seemed, also, that Frankii Cruz misled Shawnda Pallares into believing that he was able to marry her. Frankii Cruz seems to move so quickly to the "You're the best thing to ever happen to me" line that the young girl becomes blinded to the red flags and is thrilled that somebody wants to marry her, that there hasn't been enough time to pass to realize and experience what Frankii Cruz is really like. Frankii Cruz visited Shawnda Pallares in Oak Harbor, Washington for a week at a time at various points in their relationship but Shawnda Pallares seemed to ignore the practicalities of real life - mainly that in most cases couples want to date first, or live together for a while, too, and things like that before getting engaged.
It was made clear that Shawnda Pallares was literally planning her future life with Frankii Cruz . Shawnda Pallares planned on relocating from Oak Harbor, Washington, where her family, friends, and life were, to Frankii Cruz's world in San Diego, and ALREADY BEING PREGNANT with, her words exactly, "a little one on the way," and living happily ever after with this man who had no intention of getting divorced, and was also, get this... CHEATING ON HER WITH A GIRL IN CUBA named Nicole.
After returning to Cuba from a leave visit with Shawnda Pallares, Frankii Cruz promptly saw Nicole, the girl he was seeing there, the very same girl Frankii Cruz had to borrow money from so he could afford to go visit Shawnda Pallares on leave. Shawnda Pallares and Frankii Cruz's relationship ended near the close of May 2006.
Folks, if you're dating someone who claims that they are actively seeking a divorce, but that their spouse refuses to cooperate - ASK TO SEE THEIR PAPERWORK. Divorces can be gotten by default and without the participation of the other party. If you're dating someone who claims that they are actively seeking a divorce, but that their spouse is dodging being served - ASK TO SEE THEIR PAPERWORK. The person requesting the divorce can ask the court/judge to serve their spouse by publication (have it printed in the newspaper).
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